Do you believe a person with hate or anguish in their heart can truly be happy? What’s your reasoning?

It’s highly unlikely that someone harboring hate or anguish will be happy. Until life gets so miserable and deals up so much shit that they finally surrender.

Surrender is Read more

Why do so many men lack empathy?

Great question, thanks!

Actually, empathy is only one of many traits that men lack, that stems from repressing any emotion except anger.

Western society devalues emotions. So many messages – particularly for men – that emotions are somehow to be denied and ignored. Did you ever hear any of these? Read more

If I’m not very emotionally self-aware, how can I improve?

The fact that you asked the question indicates an awareness that you’re not emotionally aware at this point. And that awareness has brought forward a desire to change that. Admirable!

The first thing you’ll want to Read more

How do I develop my IQ and critical thinking skills?

My sense is that this should be two separate questions. IQ and critical thinking skills are two entirely different things.

I’ll respond to the critical thinking part. Read more

What has the law of attraction done to you?

Here: My story in a nutshell by Bob Wuest on Creating with Mind (aka the Law of Attraction)

What is a “high-consciousness field”?

high-consciousness field is a physical space where the consciousness level is extraordinarily high, as measured by the consciousness calibration methods described in Dr. David R. Hawkins’ book Power vs. Force.

Dr. Hawkins developed a scale of consciousness from 1 to 1000, against which any person, place, event or situation can be measured at any point in time, using kinesiology as the means of calibrating. This conscious calibration process is described in detail in Power vs. Force.

A number of sacred shrines, sanctuaries and temples throughout the world calibrate higher than 500, the level of Love. And, a few calibrate upwards of 750, the level of Enlightenment.

What causes these places to be so high in conscious energy? Read more

How do successful people mentally deal with negative situations or people?

No one can speak for “successful people”, but only for themselves – because each of us is an individual, each with his/her own coping strategies.

So I’ll speak for myself. Read more

Do you control your attitude, or does your attitude control you?

The simple answer is yes. I’ll explain.

It’s entirely possible to manage and direct your attitude. And your state of mind (your attitude) informs and guides the way you show up in the world.

One of the easiest ways to Read more

What are some tips for boosting self esteem?

I have no easy answer for you.

Building self esteem is a lifetime journey. And, that journey consists of taking many small steps. Read more

I really hate men. How can I change that?

I’m assuming you’ve had one or more traumatic experiences with men – maybe physical or emotional abuse, a broken heart, or a bad dad relationship.

Realize that shifting your feelings about men is going to be a process that may take some time. There’s no magic wand to wave, to shift your feelings instantly.

First step. Read more