How can I stop my mind from thinking inappropriate things?

A thought is harmless until we believe it. It’s not our thoughts, but our attachment to our thoughts, that causes suffering.

~ Byron Katie

The mind is a.wonderful servant, but a terrible master

~ Unknown

You probably can’t stop your Read more

As a sensitive person prone to intense emotions, how do you promote emotional health?

I’ve responded to a similar question previously. You can find it HERE.

Cultivating emotional maturity will improve every aspect of one’s life. You’ll become more stable and resilient. You’ll have better health, less stress and anxiety. You’ll literally increase your lifespan.

Good luck!


Do you believe a person with hate or anguish in their heart can truly be happy? What’s your reasoning?

It’s highly unlikely that someone harboring hate or anguish will be happy. Until life gets so miserable and deals up so much shit that they finally surrender.

Surrender is Read more

How much of ‘The Secret’ is true? What’s your personal experience?

I’ve written a lot here about the LoA. HERE is why I think it’s so cool.

And HERE is part of my own personal experience with it.

The Law is always working for you. But if your mind is undisciplined, it’s probably working against you, rather than for you.

Only by studying and practicing can you become proficient with creating a remarkable reality with your thoughts.

It’s worth the effort. When you learn to create your reality, your life will shift in wonderful ways.


Do we discriminate to preserve ourselves, our way of life, wealth and health?

Not at all. It has exactly zero to do with preservation, and everything to do with fear and hatred. People discriminate against others because they learned it from others – family, church, friends, or wherever. Now, Read more

Why do so many men lack empathy?

Great question, thanks!

Actually, empathy is only one of many traits that men lack, that stems from repressing any emotion except anger.

Western society devalues emotions. So many messages – particularly for men – that emotions are somehow to be denied and ignored. Did you ever hear any of these? Read more

How does one gain wisdom?

There’s a distinct difference between wisdom and knowledge. Your question was about wisdom, but I thought I’d draw a comparison for the sake of clarity.

Knowledge is something your absorb from reading, lectures or discussions.

Wisdom is Read more

What is the point of rebirth if you are not aware during the cycle, or are you.? Does it make a difference, and how will my current self ever experience the result?

I presume you’re asking about reincarnation i.e., physical rebirth; and not energetic/spiritual/emotional rebirth as the result of therapy, ritual, or other altered state experiences.

Actually, rebirth is kind of Read more

What is something everyone complains about, but you have never personally experienced?

Technically, I don’t have an answer to your question, because I don’t know “everyone”.

But in the circles I move in, I’ve heard Read more

What’s your view on hell?

Hell is the state of mind you experience in life when you are not happy with yourself. If you’re Read more