You try to be vulnerable to your SO, but he uses the information he gets against you. Why does he do this, and what do I do?

He does it because he’s not trustable. He’s demonstrated that it’s not safe for you to be vulnerable with him.

So you have to Read more

What’s it like to move on in your life from anything be it loneliness, heartbreak, pain, betrayal, losing self-respect, or failure?

The difference between defeat and failure.

The defeated are those who never fail. Defeat means that we lose a particular battle or war.

Failure does not allow us to go on fighting.

Defeat comes when we fail to get something we very much want.

Failure does not allow us to dream. Its motto is: Read more

I never feel bad, but I never feel happy. Is it normal? How can I change it?

Here’s one idea that’s likely to help you to feel happy with yourself, and with life in general.

Serve someone else.

Many of us spend our lives in pursuit of what will make us happy. And so often in a materialistic society, we think that means getting something for us.

A higher truth is that doing something for others can be a great source of happiness.

Here’s a cool article about how Read more

Is fear an emotion or just a state of mind?

Depending on where you get your definition of fear, it could be either.

A Course in Miracles says there are only love and fear thoughts. Clearly, they’re referring to Read more

Why doesn’t the law of attraction work for me? I visualize in detail and let go and receive nothing.

What are your blocks?

For instance, do you have unconscious programming that says “I can’t afford this” or “I don’t deserve this”? Or “this doesn’t work for me”? (Gotcha!) See Read more

Is there a point where sensitivity, empathy, and compassion becomes dangerous? Wouldn’t people benefit from having a thicker hide?

“Thicker hide” may translate well to suppressimg one’s human nature.

It’s easy to hide, repress and deny one’s feelings. (Except anger, of course. Everyone does anger.) Society teaches us to ignore our feelings (including those you mentioned here). And so the payoff is that we don’t have to feel. Because some feelings are painful. Some require that we pay attention, or act.

Each of us has Read more

If law of attraction works then why was I unable to attract the person I loved?

There are so many possibilities why. First among them is, are you applying the principles necessary to invoke the Law in attracting the object of your desires – whether it’s a love interest, a lifestyle upgrade, or anything else? Are you making time each day to visualize yourself already in relationship? And expressing deeply felt gratitude as if it has already occurred?

Using the Law to attract a certain person is problematic. Read more

Which one is important: giving your best and expecting nothing or expecting abundance, based on law of attraction?

Wow, there’s a lot of meat to this question! Where to start? Maybe in the sequence you used in the question.

Give your best

I love that you put this in the question. Because metaphysically speaking, giving and receiving are yin and yang. We speak of karma, and karmic rewards. Well, karma is no more than cause and effect. When you start the pendulum swinging in one direction, it can’t help but swing back. Give, and you will receive.

Here are Read more

How do you deal with a person who never takes your advice because it isn’t what they want to hear, but will continuously brings up the same issue over and over again?

Stop giving advice.

Nobody ever listens to advice you give that they didn’t ask for. So you’re talking just for your own gratification.

And quit judging your friend. If you want to be a true friend, help them find their own truth instead of imposing yours on them.

I know that’s not the answer you wanted. But it’s the best advice you’re gonna get.


Has the law of attraction ever worked for you?

I’ve answered this question lots of times already. If it’s worth your time, why not look through my previous responses. I think you’ll find some pretty incredible stories there!

HERE is one of them.